Communication Matters
Aug 27, 2021
Communication : The successful conveying or sharing of ideas and feelings.
We may think that we have communicated our thoughts or needs, however the way someone interpreted what you said may be different than how you meant it.
This occurs for different reasons.
The way we articulate something is solely based on our personal experience with it. We will try to paint a picture of what we mean, but the other person has not had our same experience. They will interpret what you are saying based on their experience and beliefs.
Another reason someone may not fully understand what you mean is due to different personality types. People handle information in different ways. As an example... some people need time to process what you are saying while others can easily comprehend and make decisions quickly.
When successful communication does not happen, do not take their lack of understanding personally. In general, people can grasp concepts that they are familiar with better than topics they are not so well versed in.
The best way to determine if someone has fully understood what you are communicating is to ask for clarification. You can ask them "did that make sense?" This will give the other person a moment to determine if you are both on the same page.
Talking through it matters. Communication matters.
Here are some tips for successful communication:
- Be an engaged listener
- Express yourself
- Pay attention to non-verbal signs
- Control your emotions
- Make intentional word choices
- Understand that people handle information different ways
Lastly, don't forget to enjoy the process of healthy communication with others. We can learn a lot from each other and have fun while doing it!
