Permission to Want More

Have you ever felt a twinge of guilt for wanting more? More ease, more love, more joy in your life? It's a common feeling, often stemming from a fear of appearing ungrateful for what we already have. But what if I told you that wanting more isn't a sign of ingratitude, but a sign of something far more profound: honesty?

The Myth of 'Enough'

Our society often equates contentment with settling. We're told to be happy with 'enough,' but 'enough' is a moving target. What feels like enough today might feel limiting tomorrow, and that's perfectly okay. The desire for more isn't about being greedy; it's about recognizing your potential for growth and expansion. It’s about acknowledging that you deserve to experience the fullness of life.

These simple statements form the basis of this perspective, and they can be powerful reminders of your inherent right to pursue a life filled with abundance and fulfillment:

• Recognize your worth
• Embrace your desires
• Reject guilt
• Trust your intuition
•  Expand your capacity for joy

Don't let anyone tell you that your dreams are too big, or your desires are too much. You are worthy of all the good that life has to offer. Embrace these ideas and watch as your world transforms.

Honesty and Self-Love

Denying your desires is a form of self-betrayal. When you suppress what you truly want, you create a disconnect within yourself. Honesty, on the other hand, is an act of self-love. It's about acknowledging your deepest longings and giving yourself permission to pursue them. This honesty is not selfish; it's essential for your well-being and for creating a life you deserve.

Consider this: wanting more love doesn't diminish the love you already have. Wanting more ease doesn't mean you don't appreciate the challenges you've overcome. And wanting more joy certainly doesn't mean you're ungrateful for the good moments you've experienced. It simply means you're open to receiving even more of the goodness that life has to offer.

Releasing the Guilt

So, how do we release the guilt associated with wanting more? It starts with shifting your perspective.

•  Acknowledge the guilt: Recognize that the feeling is there without judgment.
•  Challenge the belief: Ask yourself where the guilt is coming from. Is it a societal expectation, a past experience, or a fear of the unknown?
•  Reframe your desires: See your desires not as selfish wants, but as guiding lights pointing you toward a more fulfilling life.
•  Practice self-compassion: Be kind to yourself as you navigate this process. It’s okay to want more, and it’s okay to stumble along the way.
•  Take action: Even small steps toward your desires can help to dispel the guilt and create a sense of momentum.

Embrace Your Potential

You are allowed to want more. You are allowed to dream bigger, to desire deeper connections, and to experience greater joy. Embrace your desires with honesty and without guilt. This is not about being ungrateful; it's about recognizing your inherent worth and your limitless potential. It's about honoring the truth within you that knows you deserve a life filled with abundance and fulfillment.

Next Steps

Take some time to reflect on what you truly want in your life. Write down your desires without censoring yourself. Then, identify one small step you can take today to move closer to those desires. Remember, you are worthy, you are capable, and you are allowed to want more.