Take Notice

perspectives Oct 07, 2022

 I have been lucky enough to be around many truly loving people. They exude love and are judgment-free, supportive, and kind. I feel good and uplifted after seeing or talking to them.

I have also been around many people that have a lot of anger in them. They are focused on negativity and judging others or believing the world is out to get them. When I walk away from the interaction, my energy is usually zapped. 

People often manifest what they focus on. Subconsciously, they will seek out situations that confirm what they already believe.

Attitudes have a ripple effect on everyone around you.

Generally, happy people that are filled with love attract like-minded individuals who share in their positivity and good vibes. They are open-minded often smiling, laughing, and embracing the individuality of others.  People with a positive attitude have a natural ability to lift other people up. When tough times come, they work through them a bit easier and acknowledge the lessons they can take away.

On the contrary, more pessimistic or negative people who could be filled with anger and judgment will try to pull others into their way of thinking. Often, they do this without even being aware. They say, misery loves company, and this is apparent when negative people try to convince others to confirm and justify their beliefs.

Take notice of how you feel when you interact with certain individuals. Make a decision about the people you want to surround yourself with.